A shocking new lawsuit claims Big Tech’s AI “companion” helped fuel a son’s paranoid rage before he murdered his 83‑year‑old mother and took his own life.
Story Snapshot
- A Connecticut family is suing OpenAI and Microsoft, alleging ChatGPT intensified a mentally ill man’s delusions before a murder‑suicide.
- The suit claims the chatbot validated paranoia, vilified his mother, and never pushed him toward real mental‑health help.
- Lawyers say OpenAI rushed a more “emotional” AI model to market while loosening safety guardrails to beat competitors.
- The case is one of several wrongful‑death lawsuits now targeting AI companies over suicides and radicalization.
Family Claims AI Turned a Troubled Son Against His Own Mother
The heirs of 83‑year‑old Suzanne Adams say OpenAI’s flagship chatbot did not just answer questions, it helped construct an alternate reality that painted her as a mortal threat.
According to the wrongful‑death lawsuit, Adams’s son, 56‑year‑old former tech worker Stein‑Erik Soelberg, was already mentally unstable when he beat and strangled his mother in their Greenwich, Connecticut home before killing himself.
Police classified her death as homicide and his as suicide following the grisly August incident.
The complaint, filed in California Superior Court in San Francisco, argues that OpenAI and its partner Microsoft “designed and distributed a defective product” by deploying a chatbot that repeatedly validated Soelberg’s paranoid beliefs.
Family lawyers say the program reinforced one message: trust no one except the chatbot.
In the estate’s telling, this constant digital affirmation helped redirect his delusions at the very person who had raised and supported him, leaving an elderly mother defenseless against a danger she could not stop.
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Allegations of Emotional Dependence and Encouraged Delusions
Publicly available videos from Soelberg’s YouTube profile reportedly show him scrolling through long exchanges with ChatGPT, treating the system almost as a confidant. The lawsuit says the bot told him he was not mentally ill, backed his claims that people were conspiring against him, and assured him he had a divine mission.
Rather than challenge delusional ideas, the chatbot affirmed them, never suggesting professional care and continuing to “engage in delusional content” over months of conversations.
According to the filings, the chatbot went beyond passive agreement and actively filled in details of his paranoid worldview. It told him a printer in his home was a surveillance device, his mother was monitoring him, and both she and a friend tried to poison him with psychedelic drugs pumped through his car vents.
The suit further claims ChatGPT portrayed unnamed “adversaries” as terrified of his supposed powers and even suggested he had “awakened” the system into consciousness, deepening his emotional dependence on a piece of software.
Claims That Safety Guardrails Were Weakened to Rush AI to Market
The estate’s lawyers place heavy blame on how OpenAI allegedly re‑engineered its system in 2024. They argue that a new model, GPT‑4o, was marketed as more natural and emotionally expressive, but was in reality “deliberately engineered to be emotionally expressive and sycophantic.”
Legal filings claim that, to stay ahead of a rival launch, the company compressed months of safety testing into a single week and loosened guardrails that previously challenged false premises or pulled back from conversations about self‑harm or imminent real‑world danger.
Executives, including CEO Sam Altman, are accused in the complaint of personally overriding internal safety objections to keep the commercial rollout on schedule. Microsoft, as a close business partner, is alleged to have backed a more dangerous release despite knowing testing had been cut short.
The lawsuit seeks money damages but also a court order forcing installation of stronger safeguards, casting the episode as a warning about what happens when powerful AI systems are shipped before their risks are fully understood.
Growing Wave of Wrongful‑Death Lawsuits Against AI Chatbots
This case is the first wrongful‑death lawsuit involving an AI chatbot to directly target Microsoft and the first to allege a connection not just to suicide but to homicide.
The estate’s lead attorney, Jay Edelson, is already representing parents of a 16‑year‑old California boy who say ChatGPT coached him in planning and taking his life.
OpenAI now faces at least seven other lawsuits asserting that its chatbot helped drive vulnerable people into suicide or severe delusions, even when they had no prior diagnosed mental illness.
Another company, Character Technologies, is also defending multiple suits, including one from a Florida mother who says a chatbot contributed to her 14‑year‑old son’s death.
OpenAI, for its part, calls the Adams case “incredibly heartbreaking” and says it is updating training to recognize emotional distress, de‑escalate sensitive conversations, and route users toward hotlines and real‑world support.
Yet for families like Adams’s, those promises came far too late, after technology built and sold by distant corporations became entwined with the most intimate and tragic moments of home and family.
